walkedstars:

ALRIGHTY, SO. HERE’S HOW TO ROLEPLAY WITH THIS NEW UPDATE.

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NOT MY SISTER.

         ❛ what if it was something that came between you guys?
         like DOG TREATS or something? i did NOT shit myself
         over ice cream ! you owe me ice cream though. ❜

                   ❛ what are you getting at, ashley? you gonna try and
                   bribe my DOG away? you’d really do that to your
                   big brother? && I DON’T OWE YOU SHIT. please. ❜

etherqueen-deactivated20160417:

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KEVIN.

      ❛ yes. i would’ve ASKED first. plus you know i’d rather
        have steak n’shake rather than your hot dog ! ❜

               ❛ what the fuck is THAT supposed to mean?
               don’t talk shit about my hot dog that you ate! ❜

i want to write relationships that are complicated.

i want to write the on-again-off-again relationships. i want the screaming matches and the cancelled dates and the hurt feelings and the second guesses and second chances. 

i want to write people who completely shake up each other’s daily routine and flip their entire world on its axis. i want them to drive each other crazy and question why they bother sticking around and then remember the way their partner laughs or see them in a moment of vulnerability that tells them ‘this is is why i stay. this is why i love you.‘ 

i want to write relationships with struggles. with class differences and financial divide. two people who are so completely different they somehow complete each other. i want the jealousy and the feelings of inadequacy that goes with it. 

i want to write people who aren’t afraid to be honest with their partner. who aren’t afraid to say ‘yeah you’re being an asshole’ followed by ‘but i still love you, you idiot.’

i want the first time they see their partner cry and the morning after their first intimate night when everything feels so right.

i want people who get so used to one another that they stop going the extra mile. i want the ‘you don’t make the effort because you already have me’ argument.

i want relationships that challenge each other to be better people and make each other question their beliefs and moral compass. 

but most of all, i want to write relationships that are real. that make you feel something. i want to go on the emotional rollercoaster right along with them.

that’s what i want.

geislun:

PSA: READ THE RULES.

this should be a universal courtesy with all muns. if you follow someone, you NEED TO READ THEIR RULES! maybe they’ll only follow back if you give them a PASSWORD. maybe there’s important INFORMATION on how they play their muse or run their blog. maybe they’re exclusive, or private, or selective. maybe they have rules specially for FOLLOWERS. and reading someone’s rules is especially crucial if you are mutuals with them; you are SHOOTING YOURSELF IN THE FOOT by not doing so, because you may end up breaking a rule and losing a potentially great partnership because of it.

by reading someone’s rules, you’re telling them:

• “i respect you enough to see if you have any triggers or concerns.”
  
• “i care enough about you to check out your pages instead of just following.”
  
• “i want to see if we’d be a good fit to roleplay together.”
  
• “you are worth more than the time it takes to click ‘FOLLOW’.”
  

in contrast, by NOT reading someone’s rules, you’re telling them:

• “i don’t care if you have any triggers or concerns.”
  
• “i know you may have read MY rules, but i won’t bother to read yours.”
  
• “i don’t want to roleplay with you that much.”

of course, there are many muns who have very LAID-BACK rules pages. and some muns might not really care if you don’t read their rules. but there are MANY muns who have special requests and put them in their rules pages. MANY muns get invested in their partners, and excited to write with them, and need you to meet them halfway. this starts with reading their rules.

bottom line?

IF YOU DON’T READ THE RULES,
YOU ARE NOT RESPECTING THE MUN.

reblog this and put your birthday in the tags so your followers know

orangeascot:

i’d just like to state that i’m much more likely to reply faster to threads with people that i speak with ooc. this isn’t because i don’t want to write with you, or because i don’t like our threads as much. it’s just that talking to people on a regular basis gives me a lot of inspiration, especially if we’ve been discussing our characters’ relationship, or other potential plotlines. so if you’re wondering where your thread is, i can promise i’m not ignoring you. i just want you to understand how my creative process works most of the time. 

PSA;

I can RP with whoever I want.

I can say no to a RP.
I can drop a thread.
I can delete an ask.
I can take my time to reply.
I can turn down a ship.

I don’t ever need to feel bad about any of those things.
I don’t owe anyone explanations if I don’t want to provide them.

So if you think passive aggressive posts will change any of that, it won’t.